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Is my baby’s development normal?

As a new parent, one of the most common concerns is whether your baby is developing normally. Every child grows and reaches milestones at their own pace, but understanding typical developmental stages can help you track your baby’s progress and ensure they are on the right path. At Tourmaline Birth Center, San Diego’s luxury premier natural birth center, we are dedicated to providing you with the knowledge and support you need to monitor your baby’s development. In this article, we’ll discuss typical developmental milestones, how to track your baby’s growth, and when to seek professional advice.

Understanding Developmental Milestones

Developmental milestones are specific skills or behaviors that most children exhibit by a certain age. These milestones are divided into four main categories:

Physical (Motor Skills):

  • Gross motor skills involve large muscle activities such as crawling, walking, and jumping.
  • Fine motor skills involve smaller movements such as grasping objects, holding a spoon, and drawing.

Cognitive (Thinking Skills): 

  • Cognitive development includes skills related to thinking, learning, and problem-solving.

Language (Communication Skills):

  • This includes both verbal and non-verbal communication, such as babbling, saying words, and understanding instructions.

Social and Emotional (Interpersonal Skills):

  • Social and emotional development involves interacting with others, expressing emotions, and developing relationships.
  • Typical Developmental Milestones by Age
  • While each baby is unique, here are some general milestones to expect during the first year:

0-3 Months:

Physical:

  • Lifts head while lying on tummy
  • Follows moving objects with eyes
  • Brings hands to mouth

Cognitive:

  • Recognizes familiar faces and objects
  • Begins to track objects with eyes

Language:

  • Coos and makes gurgling sounds
  • Responds to sounds and voices

Social and Emotional:

  • Smiles at people
  • Enjoys playing with others

4-6 Months:

Physical:

  • Rolls over from tummy to back and back to tummy
  • Sits with support

Reaches for objects and grasps them

Cognitive:

  • Explores objects with hands and mouth
  • Shows curiosity about surroundings

Language:

  • Babbles with different sounds
  • Responds to their name

Social and Emotional:

  • Recognizes familiar people
  • Shows emotions like happiness and sadness

7-9 Months:

Physical: 

  • Sits without support
  • Crawls or scoots
  • Pulls to stand

Cognitive:

  • Finds hidden objects (object permanence)
  • Transfers objects from one hand to another

Language:

  • Understands simple words like “no” and “bye-bye”
  • Uses gestures like pointing or waving

Social and Emotional:

  • Develops attachment to caregivers
  • Shows fear of strangers (stranger anxiety)

10-12 Months:

Physical:

  • Stands alone and may take first steps
  • Claps hands and waves goodbye
  • Picks up small objects using thumb and forefinger (pincer grasp)

Cognitive:

  • Begins to use objects correctly (e.g., drinking from a cup)
  • Imitates gestures and actions

Language:

  • Says “mama” and “dada” and may say a few other words
  • Understands and follows simple directions

Social and Emotional: 

  • Shows preference for certain people and toys
  • Tests parental responses to behavior (e.g., throwing toys)

How to Track Your Baby’s Development

  1. Regular Check-ups: Schedule regular pediatric check-ups to monitor your baby’s growth and development. Pediatricians use developmental screenings to identify any potential delays.
  2. Keep a Journal: Document your baby’s milestones and any concerns you may have. This can be helpful for discussions with your pediatrician.
  3. Engage with Your Baby: Spend quality time interacting with your baby through play, reading, and talking. This stimulates their development across all categories.
  4. Use Developmental Checklists: Refer to developmental milestone checklists provided by trusted sources like the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) or the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP).

When to Seek Professional Help

While variations in development are normal, there are certain signs that may indicate a need for professional evaluation. Contact your pediatrician if:

  • Your baby is not meeting multiple milestones for their age group.
  • Your baby shows no interest in their surroundings or interacting with others.
  • Your baby loses previously acquired skills.
  • Your baby has difficulty feeding or swallowing.

Monitoring your baby’s development is essential for ensuring they are growing and thriving. By understanding typical developmental milestones and tracking your baby’s progress, you can provide the support they need to reach their full potential. Remember, each child develops at their own pace, so celebrate their achievements and be patient with their progress.

At Tourmaline Birth Center, we are here to support you and your baby through every stage of development. If you have any concerns or need additional guidance, please don’t hesitate to reach out to our team of experts. We are dedicated to helping you and your baby thrive in a nurturing and supportive environment.